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Close to 40 disadvantaged young people and job seekers will be given a head start in gaining the skills, confidence and support needed to secure sustainable employment in the Burdekin Electorate. Member for Burdekin Dale Last welcomed the Crisafulli Government’s $215,500 investment in the Burdekin PCYC’s successful Get Set for Work program and the $146,800 investment into WhitsundaySuccess Pathways’ Work Skills Traineeships program to be delivered in Bowen. Included in the $46.2 million round of Skilling Queenslanders for Work Program, the two projects are among 166 across Queensland targeted towards skills shortages in priority industries in our community and region. “The Burdekin PCYC’s Get Set for Work program has already proven a success in our community and this round will see a further 36 disadvantaged young adults receive skills industry-recognised training including First Aid, White Card, RSA, RSG and driver licensing support,” Mr Last said. “By providing the additional wrap around support as part of both the Get Set For Work and the Whitsunday Success Pathways programs, disadvantaged young adults will receive a holistic experience tailored to each of their needs.” “We have already seen the successful results in our community with past participants becoming the skilled workers we need in priority industries like construction, health, community services and hospitality.” Mr Last said the state government funded program had the ability to provide real impacts on communities in regional Queensland that often faced significant skills shortages. “In order to grow our local workforce and bolster our region’s economy, we need to be able to retain young adults in our community and that means ensuring there are positive career pathways available and the ability to obtain the skills needed in our towns,” Mr Last said. “Programs like Skilling Queenslanders for Work demonstrates the Crisafulli Government’s focus of providing better outcomes for workers, employers and local communities.” “This is a great outcome for Burdekin and Bowen communities whose economies ultimately benefit from the addition of skilled, local young workers.” Supplied by the Office of Member for Burdekin Dale Last MP.
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A draft 20-year plan released for North Queensland has pledged to protect the Burdekin's productive agricultural land while planning for new housing, infrastructure and economic growth. Burdekin Shire is one of just five council areas directly covered by the North Queensland Regional Plan, meaning decisions made through the planning process will help shape the district's future development. The draft plan is accompanied by a North Queensland Infrastructure Plan, bringing future land use together with planning for transport, water, energy, digital connectivity and social and community infrastructure. For the Burdekin, where agriculture remains a cornerstone of the local economy, Member for Burdekin Dale Last said protecting productive land must remain central to decisions about future growth. “The Burdekin is an agricultural powerhouse and an important contributor to Queensland’s economy and protecting our productive land must remain a priority as the region grows,” Mr Last said. “This draft plan provides an opportunity for local communities, farmers, businesses and industry to have their say on how North Queensland grows over the next two decades.” The regional planning framework is particularly significant for agricultural communities because Queensland's planning system recognises priority agricultural and strategic cropping areas when managing competing land uses. Alongside protecting established industries, the North Queensland planning process is focused on housing supply and economic development and will provide direction for future local planning and development assessment. That gives Burdekin residents and industry an opportunity to weigh in on how growth should be accommodated while retaining the productive land and economic strengths already supporting the district. Farmers, businesses, industry groups and residents can make submissions on the draft plan during the public consultation period. Feedback closes on Tuesday 29th September.
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Long before Max Tavasci became a fixture at Lions Club fundraisers and children’s eye screenings across Outback Queensland, he was a young North Queensland swimming star making Australian sporting history. A 1970 Commonwealth Games silver medalist, former sugar cane farmer, and dedicated volunteer, Max passed away suddenly on the 29th of July while traveling out west with his caravan to bring vision screening to school children in Mount Isa and the Gulf country. He was 72. Born and raised in Ayr to Italian farming parents, Battista and Margaret Tavasci, Max grew up on the family property. Encouraged by his mother to stay active, he developed into an elite swimmer alongside his siblings, training in local waters and rubbing shoulders with visiting athletes. His hard work culminated in 1970 when he represented Australia at the Edinburgh Commonwealth Games, claiming a silver medal in the 1500m freestyle while his father served as a race timekeeper. His legacy endures in his hometown, where the 'Max Tavasci Trophy' is still presented annually at the Ayr School Swimming Carnival. Following his athletic success, Max worked on the family farm, laboured in Tasmania and Maryborough, and drove trucks before returning to North Queensland. Known for his love of colourful shirts, fast cars—which his son fondly noted he rarely drove fast—and Meat Loaf records, Max lived a full and colourful life. "He had the heart of a champion, handed down from my dad," said his sister, Paula Dowson. "He died doing what he loved to do." In the second half of his life, Max found a renewed sense of purpose through Lions Australia. Over 18 years of service with the Burnie City, Cleveland Bay, and Townsville Castle Hill Lions Clubs, he became a tireless community worker. Alongside his partner of more than 20 years, former District Governor Michael MacLaren, Max traveled across Queensland conducting paediatric vision checks, running raffles for Lions Assistance Dogs, delivering meals for Eat Up Australia, and assembling disaster relief hampers for flood-affected regions. Remembered by peers as a "true gentleman" and a stable, calm presence on the regional Lions cabinet, Max devoted his final years entirely to service. "I feel Dad found himself and his place with Michael, Lions Australia and the church, evidenced by the lasting happiness he displayed over the last two decades,” said his son, Scott Tavasci. Max is survived by his partner, Michael MacLaren; his son, Scott; his granddaughters, Scarlett and Eloise; his sister, Paula; and his extended family. His funeral was held at Kirwan Uniting Church on the 20th of August. CAPTION: Remembered by peers as a "true gentleman" and a stable, calm presence on the regional Lions cabinet, Max Tavasci devoted his final years entirely to service. Photo:
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The Kalamia Hotel is turning 100, and it wants the Burdekin there to celebrate. After a century of beers, meals, friendships and memories, ‘The Locals’ Local’ is marking the milestone with a massive day of entertainment, music, prizes and family fun. CAPTION: A century, extensive renovations and multiple ownership changes later, the Kalamia still stands at its original location on Queen Street. Photo: Jacob Casha.
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This week, we are proud to recognise Queensland Mental Health Week, a time to reflect on the importance of wellbeing, support those around us, and encourage open conversations about your health.
It’s a great opportunity to connect with others and remind ourselves that it’s okay to ask for help when needed.
As part of the week’s celebrations, I’d like to invite everyone to join us for the Connect and Celebrate event this Saturday 14 October, at the Burdekin Theatre Forecourt, starting from 3pm.
We’re kicking off with a special celebration marking 30 years of the Burdekin Shire Youth Council, followed by engaging craft activities for all ages. There will be live music, health and wellbeing resources, free face painting, a free sausage sizzle, and an ice-cream van - plenty of fun for the whole family!
This event, proudly funded by the Queensland Government as part of Queensland Mental Health Week, is a fantastic opportunity to come together and celebrate our wellbeing.
Looking ahead, we also have the Seniors Expo and Luncheon next Wednesday 16 October at the Memorial Hall. This event will bring our senior residents together to enjoy a delicious lunch and dessert while exploring valuable health information and services. It’s a wonderful chance to socialise, learn, and connect with the support available in our community. If you have not gotten a ticket, they are $15 and can be purchased from the Burdekin Theatre.
If you would like to get in touch with me, please feel free to phone me on 0447 150 582 or email mayor@burdekin.qld.gov.au.
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Campbell's Jewellery is set to make a significant mark this spring with its massive 50% off storewide sale on Sunday, 13th October from 9am to 2pm. The store is filled with stock, offering customers the best opportunity to find stunning jewellery and accessories at unbeatable prices. Rose Papadimitriou decided it was time to treat its loyal customers with a big event that promises to stand out from their other seasonal sales.
The promotion covers everything in-store, from diamonds and coloured stones to lab diamonds, giftware, earrings, pendants, and rings. Watches are also included, ensuring that no one leaves empty-handed. The store will be buzzing with all eight staff members ready to help customers find the perfect piece, ensuring an enjoyable and efficient shopping experience.
When it comes to quality, Campbell’s Jewellery is proud to maintain the same high standards they’ve always offered. The stock on sale is of the same premium quality that customers have come to expect from the jewellers. The items available at a discount are regularly stocked, reflecting the store’s commitment to providing top-tier jewellery at great prices all year round.
Customers are encouraged to come and explore, as "it’s all there for the taking." This sale presents the perfect opportunity for those who may have previously felt that fine jewellery was out of their price range.
This spring, Campbell’s Jewellery hopes to make luxury accessible to more people. The team is excited to welcome customers into the store, where they’ll find not only excellent deals but also the chance to walk away with something truly special. So, "Spring it on" and visit Campbell’s on the 13th of October for a day of unforgettable savings.
Jane Goodchild, Rose Papadimitriou and Danae Fabbro

If you have any information about crime or illicit drugs, contact police. The more detailed the information you give, the better it will be for all concerned.
Remember to secure your property – lock it or lose it.
You wouldn’t leave a dish containing thousands of dollars sitting on your bench or sitting out in the open, so why do this with your car keys.
Keep them safe by storing them out of sight and ensuring your home and car is locked at all times.
If you have information for police, contact Policelink by providing information using the online suspicious activity form 24hrs per day at www.police.qld.gov.au/reporting.
You can report information about crime anonymously to Crime Stoppers, a registered charity and community volunteer organisation, via crimestoppersqld.com.au 24hrs per day.
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Don’t let yourself become a victim of crime – Lock it or Lose it
If you have any information about crime or illicit drugs, phone crime stoppers on 1800 333 000. The more detailed the information you give, the better it will be for all concerned.
Remember to secure your property – “lock it or lose it”.
You wouldn’t leave a dish containing thousands of dollars sitting on your bench or sitting out in the open, so why do this with your car keys
Car keys – treat them like cash

Queensland experiences more natural disasters than any other state, this is why it is crucial that we Get Ready!
As a community we need to be prepared for extreme weather events and be resilient should such an event occur locally. This means be able to help ourselves and not rely solely on outside help.
Give some thought to what you will do if the worst happens and make a plan today. The online form can be accessed at getready.qld.gov.au/plan.
Check out Get Ready Queensland (www.getready.qld.gov.au/get-ready-queensland-week and you will find many good resources on how you can be prepared.

At 11.20pm on Friday 20 September, a window was damaged at a business in Queen Street. As a result of investigations, a 23yr old Burdekin man was issued a Notice to Appear (NTA) for one count of wilful damage and is due to appear in Ayr Magistrates Court on 28 October.
At 11.45pm on Friday 20 September, a single vehicle crash occurred on Shirbourne Road, Giru. As a result, a 19yr old Burdekin woman was issued a NTA for drink driving, .105 and is due to appear in Ayr Magistrates Court on 30 September.
At 11.45pm on Saturday 21 September, Ayr Police intercepted a vehicle on Queen Street, Ayr. As a result, the driver, a 42yr old Tablelands man, was issued a NTA for drink driving .210 and disqualified driving and will appear in Ayr Magistrates Court on 14 October.
At 12.10am on Monday 23 September, Ayr Police intercepted a vehicle on Soper Street, Ayr. The driver, a 36yr old Burdekin woman was issued a NTA for driving with a relevant drug in her saliva and is due to appear in Ayr Magistrates Court on 11 November.
At 9.35pm on Thursday 26 September, Ayr Police intercepted a vehicle in a carpark on MacMillan Street, Ayr. As a result a 55yr old Burdekin man, was issued a NTA for drink driving (in charge), .077 and will appear in Ayr Magistrates Court on 14 October.
At 12.55am on Tuesday 1 October, Ayr Police intercepted a vehicle on Queen Street, Ayr. The driver, a 26yr old Burdekin man was issued a NTA for driving with a relevant drug in his saliva and unlicenced driving and is due to appear in Ayr Magistrates Court on 9 December.
On 2 October, Ayr Police were conducting investigations into reported thefts from a department store in Queen Street when they located a 28yr old Burdekin woman. As a result, she was charged with three counts of stealing and released on conditional bail to appear in Ayr Magistrates Court on 28 October.
At 10.25pm on Thursday 3 October, Police from Ayr Highway Patrol intercepted a vehicle on Gibson Street, Ayr. The driver, an 18yr old Burdekin man, was issued a NTA for drink driving, .099 and will appear in Ayr Magistrates Court on 28 October.
Contributed with thanks to Snr Sergeant Steve Barton.

CANEGROWERS is warning that a government plan to establish a second public electricity retailer in regional Queensland risks creating a duopoly without providing the price relief that farmers desperately need.
Announced as part of their election platform, the Labor government said the move will increase competition and lower power prices.
However, CANEGROWERS Chairman Owen Menkens said that the plan fails to address the core issues and will not deliver meaningful competition in the energy market.
“This proposal would introduce a second government-owned retailer, creating pseudo-competition that offers no real benefit to electricity consumers in regional Queensland,” Mr Menkens said.
“Instead of promoting genuine competition, the plan would result in two government-owned entities controlling the market, effectively maintaining a monopoly under a different name.
“This isn’t real competition. Farmers and regional communities need actual competition that lowers prices.”
CANEGROWERS is calling for an immediate 40% reduction in electricity prices for agriculture, with tariffs capped at 16c/KWh.
This would provide urgent relief to struggling farmers and bring electricity prices back to sustainable levels.
The organisation is also pushing for reforms to the Community Service Obligation (CSO), a subsidy currently paid to Ergon Energy.
Mr Menkens said the CSO should be directed solely to Ergon Networks, not Ergon Retail, to allow other retailers to compete on price.
This, he says, is the key to fostering genuine competition and driving down power costs.
“Redirecting the CSO to Ergon Networks would level the playing field and encourage competition,” Mr Menkens said. “This is a far better solution than adding another government-owned retailer.”
CANEGROWERS is also urging the government to support the development of micro-grids that would enable sugar mills to sell power directly to sugarcane growers.
This innovative approach could help reduce electricity costs and promote renewable energy through biomass co-generation at sugar mills.
Farmers have already shown they are responsive to price signals, with many adjusting usage through Time-of-Use tariffs.
“With support for micro-grids and real competition, we believe regional Queensland could see significant energy cost savings and more innovative power solutions,” Mr Menkens said.
“We’re calling on the Queensland Government to rethink its energy policies and focus on delivering real price reductions and competitive energy markets, rather than introducing superficial fixes that won’t solve the underlying issues.”
Labor said that the publicly owned power retailer will operate state-wide and compete with Ergon in regional Queensland.
“A state-wide publicly owned retailer will ensure that the benefits from these lower wholesale prices are passed on to Queensland households and businesses,” Premier Steven Miles said.
Queenslanders in the regions will now have choice when it comes to selecting an energy provider and more options for participating in solar and community battery pricing models.
“We have so much opportunity as the sun and wind capital of the nation, and it’s time that the power we generate is for Queenslanders and owned by Queenslanders,” the Premier added,

Cane crushed
This week
Season to date
Invicta
154,497
1,840,738
Pioneer
63,231
845,842
Kalamia
80,098
1,002,444
Inkerman
89,973
1,116,305
Burdekin
387,799
4,805,329
CCS
Invicta
15.09
14.27
Pioneer
14.55
14.27
Kalamia
14.40
13.88
Inkerman
14.60
14.01
Burdekin
14.75
14.13
Weekly variety performance for region
Variety
%
CCS
Variety
%
CCS
Q240
58%
14.96
WSRA17
5%
14.35
KQ228
17%
14.21
Q208
5%
14.47
Q183
8%
15.29
Q232
5%
14.06
Comments:
The Burdekin mills processed just under 388,000 tonnes of cane for the week. This exceeded the budgeted throughput for the week although there were no stops for wet weather.
Weekly throughput at Inkerman was the highest for the season to date. Throughput at Pioneer was impacted by an extended cleaning intermission to do necessary repairs and a number of unplanned stops.
The season-to-date total is now 4.80M tonnes, which represents 59% of the Burdekin region’s crop forecast of 8.20M tonnes.
The average weekly CCS was 14.71, which is still slightly below budget but improving with the ongoing dry conditions.
The highest CCS, of 17.9, was from a rake of Q240 1R in the Mulgrave (Invicta) productivity district.
Remember to always use your train brain and give way to trains at road crossings.
John Tait
Cane Supply Manager
Burdekin Region

Two Burdekin agribusinesses are expanding operations thanks to the Rural Economic Development (RED) Grants program. Among them, Kenrose Co, based in Ayr, has received $200,000 to invest in citrus grading and packing equipment, a significant boost for the farm, which recently diversified its operations. Initially a pumpkin farm for 35 years, Kenrose now grows 15,000 citrus and avocado trees.
Another Burdekin agribusiness, Deane Farms, is also benefiting from a RED Grant, using the funds to upgrade their mango packing line and diversify into other crops.
The RED Grants program, now in its sixth round, awarded $3.7 million to 20 successful applicants, creating 118 secure jobs in rural Queensland. Each recipient receives up to $200,000 for projects like greenhouses, fruit packing facilities, and seafood processing.
Over the past six years, RED Grants have allocated $20 million to regional projects, creating over 3,000 direct and indirect jobs across Queensland. Round 7 is now open for applications, with a focus on Indigenous-owned agribusinesses and low-emissions agriculture projects.
Applications for Round 7 close on 22 November 2024. For more information, visit www.qrida.qld.gov.au/program/rural-economic-development-grants.

A Queensland Cane Agriculture and Renewables (QCAR) member recently sought assistance with a traffic infringement notice at the Herbert River QCAR office resulting in no penalty.
Herbert River District Manager Lawrence Di Bella said Daniel Truffa sought representation and support for his employee Sebastiano Barbagallo who was in a haulout vehicle hauling cane along the Bruce Highway, south of Ingham, when the infringement occurred.
Mr Di Bella said the National Heavy Vehicle Regulator (NHVR) infringement was for spilled billets.
“We engaged AgForce Cane Policy Director Sam Forzisi to review the issue as no billets were spilled on to the road.”
Mr Di Bella said both Daniel Truffa and Sebastiano Barbagallo were conscientious and aware of the NVHR regulations.
“AgForce worked with QCAR on this issue with both forming the view that, after listening to Daniel’s concerns, that Daniel’s employee’s matter did not consider the full complexities of sugarcane harvesting and haulout.”
Based on additional considerations provided in the appeal to the NVHR, the penalty was withdrawn. QCAR and AgForce remind all growers and harvesting operators to ensure they take reasonable steps to be fully compliant when operating on Queensland roads.
Mr Forzisi said the NVHR had agreed to continue to work with industry to inform and educate drivers over enforcement.
“We welcome their continued support of our heavy vehicle drivers,” Mr Forzisi said.
Mr Di Bella said QCAR and AgForce would continue to liaise with the NHVR to continue to educate sugarcane industry drivers and improve their awareness of the NHVR regulations
“Growers seeking information about the NHVR and regulations can contact the QCAR Herbert River office on 0419 673 000,” Mr Di Bella said.
QCAR member Daniel Truffa and his employee Sebastiano Barbagallo

Simon Hood
Wilmar Manager Grower Marketing
The sugar price had a nice rally in the last weeks of September leading up to the expiry of the October ICE #11 futures contract.
A combination of factors contributed to the price rise. Brazilian production continues to dominate sugar traders’ minds and, even though the crush this season is tracking ahead of the record-breaking crop of last year, it is the tail end that focuses analysts’ attention.
A growing consensus of a CS Brazil sugar production under 40M tonnes points to a near flat or balanced world supply and demand net trade position. With Brazil responsible for more than 80% of global raw sugar trade, seemingly small changes in their production variables can have significant impact on the world – and our – sugar price.
Take for example the sugar mix ratio, which is the allocation of sugar juice to crystallisation relative to ethanol production. Analysts had earlier revised up their maximum sugar capacity to around 52%+ based on significant investment in crystallisation capacity stimulated by the massive premium #11 contract had over the equivalent ethanol price over the last 12-18 months (see graphic).
However, with the crop 75% harvested, the output ratio is currently around 48% crystal vs ethanol. This small change in production percentage results in millions of tonnes less sugar produced.
Added to this revision is the ongoing dryness affecting yield and the anticipated early finish of the Brazilian crush. Throw in typhoon Yagi through the cane fields in China and a speculative community short the market - a price kick was in the making. The difference with this rally was that it met with less trade selling. For now, we will need to keep an eye on the fortnightly UNICA reports that update Brazilian production.
The rally in #11 had some of the shine taken off our sugar price by an increase in the AUD to 69c. Nevertheless, there was significant amount of forward pricing done for the 2024 and 2025 season with growers happy to average up their pricing as the crushing season passes 50% in Australia. The outlook suggests we may be in for a period of increased volatility based on macro events buffeting commodity prices and currencies.
For those who are feeling a bit fatigued by the wild swings in the market, keep an ear out for a new product we will be launching soon to assist you with managing your GEI price exposure.
Remember you have a choice of marketers, or you can split your nomination. You are not locked into your current marketer until after 31 October each year. If you’d like to learn more about our pricing and payment options, please contact a member of our Grower Marketing team.

Burdekin residents, your calls have been heard! Matt Killeen, local wildlife carer with NQ Wildlife Care, a registered charity run by volunteers is excited to announce that for the very first time, NQ Wildlife Care is bringing its Introduction to Wildlife Care and Rescue workshop to the Burdekin.
This workshop will take place on Saturday, 19th October, from 10am to 2pm at the Burdekin Neighbourhood Centre, 40 Chippendale St, Ayr.
If you’re passionate about protecting wildlife, this is your chance to get involved. The workshop, led by NQ Wildlife Care species coordinators, will teach you the essential skills and knowledge needed to rescue and rehabilitate native animals found in the Burdekin, including birds, flying foxes, macropods, microbats, possums, and small mammals.
In addition to his work with NQ Wildlife Care, Matt also runs a local Facebook group, Burdekin Wildlife Rehab, which has around 800 local followers, and another group, Burdekin Birding.
NQ Wildlife Care has been running similar training sessions regularly in Townsville, but this is the first time they’ll be hosting one right here in the Burdekin.
If they can get a good turnout, it will be a huge step forward for local wildlife care and much-needed relief for current Burdekin carers, who are overloaded with animals needing help.
Seats are limited, so please secure your spot today by visiting trybooking.com.
WHAT: Wildlife Care and Rescue Workshop
WHERE: Burdekin Neighbourhood Centre, 40 Chippendale St
WHEN: Saturday, 19th October, from 10am to 2pm

DOB: 06/12/2023
Sex: Female
Breed: DSH
Kid friendly: Yes
Cat friendly: Yes
Dog friendly: Yes
From the Celtic meaning ‘beautiful fairy’ or ‘fairy of the lake’, Faelynn certainly lives up to her name. This sweet and gentle feline is on the lookout for a new loving family to call her own.
Faelynn’s playful nature shines through during her favourite moments with toys, but she always makes time for some cozy lap surfing and affectionate cuddles.
If you're looking for a new furry companion who can bring both joy and comfort to your home, Faelynn could be the perfect fit.
Included in adoption fee of $195, Faelynn is desexed, micro-chipped, up-to-date on vaccinations and is flea/tick/intestinal worm treated.
Does it sound too good to be true? Come see for yourself! To meet fabulous Faelynn, fill in an inquiry form at https://www.angelpawsinc.com.au/forms.html.

In today’s world of precision agriculture, true innovation means creating solutions that fit seamlessly into the daily work of farmers. At Aglantis, their latest automated irrigation system does just that, marking a big leap forward in practical, easy-to-use farming technology.
Our journey began in the fields listening closely to local growers. Their feedback was crucial in shaping a system that’s not just packed with technology but built around real-world farming needs. While many systems get bogged down in complexity, Aglantis’ stands out for its simplicity and practicality, making advanced irrigation technology easy for all farmers to adopt.
Proudly developed in the heart of the Burdekin region, their system is a showcase of Australian innovation but designed for use anywhere. It’s built from local expertise and shaped by real-world farming experience, ready to deliver results wherever it’s put to use.
The Aglantis automated irrigation system isn’t just a milestone for the company —it’s a tool to make farming more efficient and profitable.
It’s suitable for any size farm and works with any irrigation setup, offering straightforward control and automation for managing water efficiently.
Stay tuned for the upcoming demo field day. If you’re interested, give Aglantis a call or visit their website to register your interest. With pricing starting from as low as $100 per hectare, Aglantis are here to help you find the right fit for your farm.
Visit us at Aglantis.com.au to learn more and see how they can make irrigation simpler and more effective for your farm.

Registrations are open for the next intake of Burdekin Community Association’s ‘Make it Happen Life Skills’ Program.
The program covers the basics of cooking ranging from kitchen hygiene, safety, preparing and cooking basic recipes, meal planning, budgeting and creating grocery lists.
Registration is essential. Please call our Housing and Community Support Team on 4783 3744 or email Rebecca.Grogan@bcaburdekin.org.au
Please see our website at www.burdekincommunityassociation.org.au
Contributed with thanks to Debra Cochran, Chief Executive Officer
Burdekin Community Association Inc (BCA).
WHAT: ‘Make it Happen Life Skills’ Program
WHERE: Burdekin Centre for Rural Health, 12a Chippendale Street Ayr
WHEN: Starts 24th October 2024 - Thursdays 1pm to 3pm

It can be really frustrating when someone close to us ignores our advice or information, only to later repeat the same thing as if it's coming from a "reliable source." It feels like our words only matter when someone else says the same thing. This kind of experience can strain relationships and cause a lot of emotional turmoil. It's important to find healthy ways to talk about these feelings and work through the difficulties of these situations.
One approach could be to have an open and honest conversation with the person, expressing how their actions make us feel and how it impacts our relationship. It's important to use "I" statements to express feelings without sounding accusatory for example – “It saddens me when I feel my advice has been ignored”. Additionally, active listening and seeking to understand the other person's perspective can also be beneficial in resolving conflicts and improving communication.
When a family member is dying, communication becomes incredibly important. Creating a safe and supportive environment where everyone can express their feelings and concerns is essential. Open and honest conversations about the situation, including the person's wishes and any necessary arrangements, can help provide clarity and reduce anxiety.
It's also important to offer each other emotional support and respect everyone's way of coping with the impending loss. Lastly, seeking professional help, such as a counsellor or therapist, can provide additional support and guidance during this difficult time.
The options mentioned above are effective ways to create a safe and open environment for communication. However, if the timing isn't right or the other person isn't ready for an open discussion, it's important to remain patient and understanding.
Rather than letting frustration take over, it's crucial to recognise that you provided valuable information. It's important to respect that everyone has the right to accept or reject information, and the ultimate goal is for everyone to reach a positive outcome, even if it means taking a different path to get there.
Until next time,
The Team
Burdekin Neighbourhood Centre